Suicide is Painless it brings on many changes and I can take or leave it if I please. So says the lyrics of the theme song to the movie and television show M*A*S*H* Ironic that this show was about the Korean War and a Mobil Army Surgical Hospital. Yet the song and the words still have relevance today. Today's men and women in the military are having trouble adapting to life outside the war zones. This is nothing new It has long been reported that in the first few years after returning from Vietnam, More American soldiers killed themselves than were killed in the war. The same can be said of today's soldiers. There have been somewhere near 6000 American deaths in Iraq and Afghanistan. and some 5800 veterans of those two wars have committed suicide. The reason for this can be explained by four letters...........
PTSD Today's troops are always in harms way no matter where they are stationed in the war zone or in a safe location in Europe or the States. There is no truly safe location. as evidence of that i point to the recent shooting in Germany and the Fort Hood shootings. In addition the high level of alert that our soldiers are required to maintain to secure their own safety contributes to the inability to readjust to civilian life. Troops come home. Their friends and families notice changes in them. They themselves begin to isolate themselves from others. Thus is the way of a war veteran. What happens next depends on the individual and his/her mindset. Some are able to adjust adapt and overcome. Some self-medicate with drugs or alcohol. And some resort to the suicide route. We as American taxpayers who have sent these young men and women of to war and to be changed forever must do whatever it takes to help them adapt. As a PTSD victim, I can tell you that it isn't easy, Not for me nor any other PTSD victim I know. Nor is it easy for the family of a PTSD victim. I went through 3 wives and a liquor store before I realized my problems and sought help. My third (current and last) wife has been trough hell just living with me. My kids have be subjected to temper outbursts that are unprovoked and unwarranted. We must make it easier for our troops to adapt. Today in our VA hospitals nationwide 8 veterans commit suicide. EIGHT VETERANS A DAY COMMIT SUICIDE IN OUR VA HOSPITALS!
EIGHT VETERANS A DAY!!
Through the early morning fog I see
visions of things to be
the pains that are withheld for me
I realize and I can see...
suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
I try to find a way to make
all our little joys relate
without the ever present hate
but now I know that it;s too late and
Suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
The game of life is hard to play
I'm gonna lose it anyway
the losing card Ill someday lay
so this is all I have to say
Suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
The only way to win is cheat
and lay it down before I'm beat
and to another give my seat
for that's the only painless feat
Suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
The sword of time will pierce our skins
it doesn't hurt when it begins
but as it works its way on in
the pain grows stronger... watch it grin
Suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
A brave man once requested me
to answer questions that are key
is it to be or not to be
and I replied"oh why ask me?"
cause suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please
and you can do the same thing if you please.
Larry, thank you for your wisdom and service!!
ReplyDeleteMan you hit it on the head ,And I feel were you are coming from.God Bless you and yours.
ReplyDeleteSuicide is never a solution. The answer for the afflicted with deeply embedded visions of horror, war and carnage is T*H*E*R*A*P*Y. One is only as sick as their secrets....and there is strength in numbers. I urge all Veterans with PTSD to get HELP!!!!! And God Bless all of you!
ReplyDeleteBernie Weisz-Vietnam War Historian/book reviewer
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As a recovering Vietnam Vet with PTSD, I can personally tell you that in my opinion, the only way you will get on the right path, is to stop keeping it all in. You need to stop shutting people out, especially your spouse, if you are married. You have likely put her through hell without telling her why. When I wrote: Missions Of Fire And Mercy, it took all I could muster to put it down on paper for the world to read. However, writing helped my PTSD healing tremendously. I also got a lot of help at the Vet Center and the VA. Just know this: you CAN get better and you will, but YOU are the one that needs to open up. You did nothing wrong by going to war and doing your job so you certainly shouldn't take that crap anymore from anyone! You did your duty and I for one, am very proud of you!
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